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The Gorean Lifestyle by Bear- October 16 1997

Guest Columnist: Mastiff
There are many debates which rage across what we consider to be our community of those who are Gorean. Some thought to be major discussions, encompassing what is felt to be "of Gor", or whether IRC relationships can ever be this way. Some quite minor, which may consist of ceremonial or serving issues. But the common theme that can always be seen threading through many arguments is that through the definitions the debater can say, "I am more Gorean".
While I have found myself guilty of this very kind of action in the past, it seems to me lately that introspection is the key. Deciding who and what follows the philosophy for oneself is the entire matter. Being Gorean does not come from reading all 25 of Norman's works, it does not come from listening to the council of other Goreans, it does not come from collaring a woman (or taking a collar) on IRC or real life. These are simply the tools to use in learning about oneself, and the process should not end. Simply put, knowing ones own desires and feelings, and acting on them, is what makes a Gorean.
Honor has a place here among all of us. In fact, you might be shunned from places if you do not act with honor. It is certainly a high goal, and one worthy of attaining, but it also must come from within. No one gave give it... no one can take it... and only the individual can live it in life. As for slaves, they also must consider what the collar means to them. Even if it is only placed on IRC, it should still have some meaning back on this wretched earth. The slaves written about so extensivly have no choice, but slaves of earth certainly do. The question then becomes, would you enter into this slavery if you knew there were no escape?
Masters, I ask you... Given the choice, would you drop what you have here on this planet, and travel to distant Gor if it existed? Yes, the rewards could be terrific. You may have slaves, a lengthy lifespan, a world devoid of pollution as we know it. But, the dangers are there as well. Would you be good enough to live by a sword? Or might you die by it. Could you have the savvy to trade goods? Or would you end up in poverty. Could you heal the sick? Or would many die as you try to save them... Gor is not fair. There is not much quarter given and there is no welfare. You might flourish, or you may wither and die. Would it be a risk worth taking? Hypothetical questions are often easy to answer, but these next could be more difficult.
Masters and slaves, I also ask you... What are you willing to give up here on earth to be true to yourself? Are you willing to give answers to those who will likely misunderstand you? Or even understand perfectly... and consider you deviant. Trust me, you will be asked what "that rock" is doing prominently displayed on the mantle. Are you willing to lose friends over your attitudes? Are you willing to lose a job? Goreans, you see, are not very often politically correct... And the most difficult, are you willing to lose family? While the blood relatives might just write you of as eccentric, the wife or husband will probably not be tolerant. There is no judge in the land who will grant you custody of children if you are honest on the stand... are you willing? For a time, it is possible to separate one from the other, but eventually the gorean philosophy take hold of those who are true and it will change them. Then you find that living a lie can tear you up inside.
Goreans, I ask you... what are you willing to do?

I wish you well, Mastiff of Ar


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